and all that lingers is the scent of you. i once swore if i threw that scent into a wishing well, all the wishes in the world would come true [ag]
I feel at home here, and I always forget that at first. That feeling of comfort washed over me again somewhere between Kibera and the Spree dance floor in Eldoret. I know just enough Swahili to be amusing (a useful blend of slang and 14 words not used since the 1996 Swahili grammar book was written) and just enough about a Kenyan way of life to feel safe but still interested. I'm always interested.
Jonathan arrived on Thursday night without incident and my friend and go-to taxi driver, Daniel, was pleased to ask him if he was excited to see "so many black people in one place." Friday morning the CDC was nice enough to give me the day off, so we got to go on adventures! We had brunch at Java House (where I ran into Jani from Eldoret, small world? country? town?) then boarded the matatu and headed to the giraffe center. Giraffes are quite pretty and have fuzzy lips. Then we wandered through the slum of Kibera. I got sunburned and enjoyed shooting the breeze with an older woman who wanted to either 1. come back to the US on my back or 2. marry Jonathan. The slum is a busy, energetic place and we were lucky enough to stumble on a soccer (football! sorry) game. That night we went over to a new friend's house for dinner with my ole pal Mwangi, where we met a fabulous Kenyan woman who took us to a club opening (read: we were the only white people and got Tuskers on the house for a few hours) then we staggered to the dance club and made it home with my roommate at 4am. It was a nice visit. I hope Jonathan would agree, but you can read about his impressions when he starts blogging (he told me it would be blesstherainsdowninafrica.blogspot.com).
Saturday morning i hopped the shuttle for the 6 hour drive to Eldoret. My seat had a tiny little screw sticking through it though (someone forgot to measure the length of the screw and the seat before drilling), which made for a jarring ride. When I made it to Eldy, I had not been in town for more than 6 minutes before running into Andrew from Tumaini on the sidewalk. So, he showed me his shop and I got to see all the volunteers from Tumaini, a wonderful, initial reunion. That was the start to a perfect lil weekend in our old stomping ground. We went out to delicious Indian food, rode with Taxi Steve, danced at Spree (the renovations have made it quite the classy joint), played IU soccer and cruised around with Andrew and Jani in the farm truck. (For those that will know, I got to see Andrew, Jani, Enoch, William, Ann, Vivian, Jay, Marion, Andrew and Kimani--but everyone sends their love and it wasn't the same without you). The man who sold gum outside of the night club remembered who I was. The kitchen staff at IU House were so welcoming. The guards were still happy sitting in the sun with the dogs. It was if, at every turn, a Kenyan had a huge smile and a warm, reaffirming explanation as to why I love it here. At the risk of sounding ______, I catch myself often forgetting that I am white. I no longer recognize it when I am the only white person on the dance floor or a bus. My dance moves instantly remind me (and everyone around me) that I am a rhythm-less mzungu, but I still love being on the dance floor at Spree. It hasn't changed and there is a smell of thick air, (heavy) body odor and fun, and the music is still better than anywhere else.
The most important thing I did in Eldoret was see Purity Regina and her now growing son, Leon. She did not come to Tumaini in the morning, so Kimani and I hopped on the piki-piki (a motorcycle, sorry dad.) and went down to "base" to find her. She came running up when she saw from across the river that we were there, and she was just a little shy and smiling and Leon was covered in boogers and dirt, but laughing and talking and he looks just like her and it was so wonderful to see her. She is a gorgeous girl. I also met her niece, who was born a few weeks after Leon and Purity told her sister to call her Lauren. So, I have a little namesake in the town of Eldoret. I hope Kenyans don't call her Maureen or Lawrence for the rest of her life. Purity and her friends then made fun of me for wearing the same red jeans (now with a hole in the knee) and Obama t-shirt almost a year later, they must be convinced I don't have any other clothes.
We rode to Purity Regina's home and then to the matatu stand where she has a small plot of land and will start selling Coca-Cola and snacks to travelers soon. She was just quiet and proud. Kimani talked about how her and I are really friends, so even if I don't have money now (the student loan thing resonated), one day when I can help more, I will never forget Purity. And he's right, and that felt good, because in varying degrees, we all knew it. Purity then giggled and pointed to her obligatory poster of a puppy licking a kitten with the line, "a friend is forever."
There was this op-ed by Wangari Maathai about Kenya staying the course with the ICC indictment, that I read over my neighbor's shoulder today on the bus while jamming to countless, awesome mix CDs. I miss ya'll and D.C., and so you know, whenever I think of D.C. it is always warm and sunny and we are riding bikes to BBQs in my daydreams. I never think of the city in winter. And thankfully Anna is keeping me hip from across the pond, and I just can't. stop.listening. to this song.
Today was also "Blue Monday" according to a Kenyan radio DJ (and her cited psychologists), it was the most depressing day of the year. Because 1. you are in debt from christmas 2. you have already broken your new year's resolution and 3. it is so dry in Kenya, it's not helping anything. So, phef, I'm happy I survived this day with a smile on my face.



